Every fall, I get the same message in my inbox: “What should we wear for our family photos?”
And then — almost always — comes the plaid.
Don’t get me wrong, plaid is adorable. It’s warm, it’s rustic, it’s peak fall vibes. But if everyone shows up in identical red-and-black checkered shirts, the photos start to look less like a cozy family session and more like an audition for a lumberjack convention.
The good news? Fall wardrobes have so much more potential. This guide is here to help you plan outfits that feel cozy, timeless, and personal — without falling into the plaid trap.
Because here’s the truth: family photos aren’t about fitting into a formula. They’re about comfort, confidence, and connection. And no matter who you are, how you identify, or what your style looks like, you deserve photos where your love shines through.
Why Outfits Matter in Photos
You might be thinking: “They’re just clothes. Does it really matter?”
Yes — and not because I’m trying to land you in a Target ad. Clothes change how you feel.
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When you’re comfortable, you relax. Relaxed = natural expressions.
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When your colors coordinate, the photos feel timeless and cohesive.
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When your outfits reflect your personalities, the photos look like you.
Think of your wardrobe as the frame for your family’s connection. The clothes shouldn’t steal the show — but they absolutely help the art shine.
Color Palettes That Work for Fall Photos
Fall is famous for its color. Gold leaves, red maples, orange pumpkins — your outfits should complement, not compete. Here are palettes I love:
Earth Tones
Rust, mustard, olive, and cream always work. They mirror the season without being too on-the-nose.
Neutrals with a Pop
Start with gray or navy as a base, then add one bold accessory like a mustard scarf or burgundy cardigan.
Soft Palettes
Blush, cream, and sage can look dreamy against vibrant fall backdrops. Great for families who want a lighter, softer feel.
Bold Accents
Want a little drama? Try jewel tones — emerald, plum, or deep teal. These pop beautifully without clashing with nature.
Pro Tip: Avoid putting everyone in the same color. Instead, coordinate by choosing 2–3 colors and mixing them across the group. That creates variety while still feeling cohesive.
Textures, Layers & Accessories
Fall = texture season. Think cozy and layered.
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Knit sweaters → warmth + depth.
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Denim jackets → casual, timeless.
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Scarves + hats → personality and comfort.
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Boots → functional and stylish.
Layers aren’t just practical for Minnesota’s unpredictable weather — they also add dimension to your photos. Accessories can bring in personality too (grandma’s quilt, a favorite necklace, a blanket to wrap around everyone).
Skip anything with big logos, neon colors, or overly busy patterns. Those distract from your faces, which is kind of the point.
Outfit Tips by Family Member
Parents
Stick with solid colors or subtle patterns. Layers photograph beautifully — think cardigans, vests, or wraps.
Kids
Comfort wins. No stiff or itchy clothes. Choose pieces that let them move, sit, and maybe even roll in leaves.
Babies
Soft knits, simple onesies, and cozy wraps always work. Add a tiny accessory (like a knit hat) for charm.
Couples
Choose complementary colors without being matchy-matchy. If one wears a patterned dress, the other should anchor it with a solid.
Inclusivity cue: These tips aren’t limited to “mom, dad, kids.” They work for blended families, chosen families, same-sex couples, single parents — whoever your people are, the goal is the same: outfits that feel comfortable and connected.
Common Outfit Mistakes
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Everyone in identical plaid. (Cute, but a little too matchy.)
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Competing patterns. If one person wears a busy print, keep the rest simple.
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Uncomfortable shoes. You’ll regret those new stiff boots five minutes in.
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Overthinking perfection. The goal is connection, not a catalog shoot.
Real Client Examples
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Neutral base + pops of color. One family wore navy and cream with a burgundy cardigan — the photos looked classic, not dated.
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Cozy sweaters + boots. Another family showed up in layers of knit, denim, and leather boots. They could move, play, and cuddle naturally.
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Jewel tones with toddlers. A same-sex couple dressed in deep emerald and plum while their toddler wore cream. The contrast was gorgeous against fall leaves, and it felt uniquely them.
These aren’t just outfit wins — they’re reminders that the best wardrobes feel like extensions of your personality.
Quick Outfit Planning Tips
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Start with one outfit you love, then build everyone else’s around it.
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Lay everything out on the bed together before the session.
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Choose comfort over fashion every time.
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Don’t forget shoes — they show in photos more than you think.
FAQ
Do we all have to match?
Nope. Coordination > matching.
Can we wear plaid?
Yes! Just don’t make it the entire family uniform.
Do we need to buy new outfits?
No — shop your closet first. Sometimes the best outfits are already there.
Do you help with outfit planning?
Yes! Every client receives a style guide with visual inspiration and tips.
Closing + Call to Action
Choosing outfits for fall family photos doesn’t have to be stressful. When you focus on comfort, connection, and colors that complement the season, your photos will feel timeless — not staged.
And remember: no matter your style, size, or identity, you belong in front of the camera. Your love is what makes the photos shine. The clothes? They’re just the frame.
Ready to plan your session? Let’s create something cozy, colorful, and perfectly you. Book Your Fall Family Session Here →
