More Than Just a Photo—It’s Your Family’s Story

Every family has a rhythm, a pulse. It’s in the way your child clings to your leg when they’re shy, or how your partner makes your baby laugh with that one silly face only they can do. At Giliane Mansfeldt Photography, I’ve spent over two decades capturing those exact moments. The laughter, the love, the perfectly imperfect chaos of family life.

But when it comes to family photography in Saint Paul, there’s often a question I hear from new clients: “Should we go for candid or posed photos?”

The truth? You don’t have to choose. Candid vs posed family photos isn’t a battle—it’s a beautiful blend. Both styles have their own charm, and when combined thoughtfully, they tell your full story. Because these aren’t just photos—they’re your memories preserved.

The Gentle Magic of Candid Photography

When I talk about natural family photography in Minneapolis, candid photography is usually what people envision—those unscripted, real moments that unfold between shots. It’s the toddler spinning in her dress, the teen rolling their eyes mid-laugh, the parents sneaking a proud glance at the family they’ve built.

Why Candid Photos Matter So Much

Candid photography captures connection. These aren’t stiff smiles aimed at a camera. These are fleeting moments—your son squeezing your hand before letting go to run across the field, your daughter cuddling in your lap without being asked.

These images tell the story of your family, as you are. And they become heirlooms not because they’re perfect, but because they’re real.

“We booked Giliane hoping for just one photo where all of us were looking. What we got were dozens of moments I didn’t even know I needed—my kids dancing, my husband holding my hand. These pictures ARE us.” – Jenna, Saint Paul

What Makes a Candid Image So Timeless

• Authenticity: You’re not posing—you’re simply being yourselves.

• Storytelling: These photos weave a visual narrative of your relationships.

• Emotional impact: A child’s giggle or a quiet forehead kiss can stir deep memories years down the line.

In candid photography, I’m not just your photographer—I’m your gentle observer, quietly guiding when needed and celebrating every beautiful unscripted moment.

The Timeless Value of Posed Portraits

Let’s be honest: there’s something comforting about knowing everyone’s looking at the camera, smiling, and framed just right. That’s the heart of posed family photography—and it absolutely has a place in your session.

Why Posed Doesn’t Mean Stiff

In my studio, I never ask families to “just stand and smile.” Instead, I guide you into positions that feel natural. I’ll ask you to snuggle in a little closer, or look at your child instead of the camera. The result? A beautifully composed image that still feels like you.

When You Want Something Classic

Posed photos are perfect for:

• Wall art: These are the prints that anchor your gallery wall.

• Gifting: Grandparents love a classic, smiling group shot.

• Legacy albums: Your grandkids will one day flip through these and know who came before them.

These portraits are your family’s visual anchor—polished, intentional, and timeless. Think of them as the elegant bookends to your collection of candid moments.

How I Blend Both Styles During Your Session

This is where the magic really happens.

When you book a session with me, I don’t ask you to pick a “style.” Instead, I craft a session that flows naturally between posed and candid moments—because that’s where the real storytelling lives.

Step 1: Starting with Gentle Guidance

We begin with relaxed, guided posing to help you feel comfortable. I’ll help position your family in soft, flattering light and give simple cues like:

• “Look at your daughter and tell her something you love about her.”

• “Let’s all squeeze in close like it’s the best hug ever.”

This not only sets the tone for beautiful portraits—it also helps you feel the love, not just show it.

Step 2: Creating Space for Authenticity

As you begin to relax, we shift into candid territory. I’ll prompt some playful activities or quiet connections that let your family’s real energy shine through. It might be:

• A game of tag with the kids.

• Whispering silly secrets.

• Letting the baby crawl toward the camera.

Suddenly, the session becomes more than photos—it becomes a memory.

“Giliane gave us the space to just be. One minute we were smiling for the camera, and the next, we were laughing uncontrollably as my daughter made goofy faces. She caught everything—even the messy joy.” – Aaron & Lily, Minneapolis

How to Prepare for a Balanced Family Photography Session

You don’t have to come into your session knowing how to pose or what to do with your hands. That’s my job. But here’s how you can prepare to help create the best mix of candid and posed magic:

1. Dress to Feel Like Yourselves

Choose outfits that are:

• Comfortable enough for play and cuddles.

• Coordinated, not matching.

• Reflective of your family’s style (earth tones, soft textures photograph beautifully!).

2. Don’t Worry About “Perfect”

Perfection isn’t the goal—connection is. If your toddler wants to run barefoot or your teen has an eye-roll moment, it’s all part of your family’s charm.

3. Trust the Process

Let go of expectations and lean into the experience. I’ll guide you gently, but your story unfolds best when you’re just being yourselves.

4. Keep Little Ones Engaged Naturally

I bring toys, prompts, and a whole lot of patience. You don’t need to stress. I’ve worked with hundreds of families and know how to keep children engaged through both candid moments and posed portraits.

Real Families, Real Sessions – A Look Inside

Let’s take a peek at a few recent families from Saint Paul and Minneapolis and how we captured both posed and candid moments:

Ashley | Maternity Session at Minnehaha Falls

Golden hour wrapped around us like a warm hug as Ashley stepped into the tall grass, her blue gown flowing softly in the breeze. She stood still, hands cradling her belly, surrounded by the quiet beauty of nature—like a scene from a dream. It was a moment of calm before the joy and motion of a growing family.

Later, we captured the details that tell their own quiet story: Ashley’s cozy sweater pulled just aside to reveal her bump, fingers gently holding a dried wildflower—symbols of change, of life, of everything about to bloom. That frame, simple and tender, is the one she chose to keep on her nightstand.